Day in the Life of an Ayi for Orphans
Lu Xiu Bao, an ayi at the Shanghai Huixin Orphanage, wakes up at 4:10am to start her busy, fulfilling day
04:10
Dragging myself out of a warm bed in the winter is the last thing I want to do. But I have to work the morning shift today, so I brush my teeth, wash my face and make the breakfast for my lovely son. I am so efficient.
04:30
I have to run to the bus station. The bus is not on time all the time and if I miss one morning bus, I will have to wait another 20 minutes. Hurry, hurry…
04:50
I am at the bus station
and the same number
bus keeps coming. Bus no.
79, then bus no. 79 again.
People might not know that
morning buses can be packed
too. I feel better in the mornings
when I see many early
birds accompanying me on
the bus. I have to keep myself
awake when I’m on the
bus. I do not want to miss
my station
05:25
I arrive at the orphanage.
I change my clothes
and a work day starts.
05:30
I wake up the children,
change their diapers,
help them brush their teeth
and wash their faces. I did the
same with my son when he
was a kid as well. Time flies.
He is already a grown up and
studying at the polytechnic
school now. I am so proud of
him. These poor children … I
wish them a good future like
other kids.
06:45
Breakfast time. Two
ayis feeding 27 children is
not an easy job. Some of the
kids are easy while others are
not easy to feed even when
they are hungry. But I have been working here for almost
three years, so I know some
tricks to feed them efficiently.
The food gets cold fast in
winter. I have to work faster
to make sure they’re eating
hot food.
07:20
Finally all the children
have satisfied stomachs.
I have to wash their faces
and happy time starts. I turn
on the TV; the children love
the shows. We will also teach
them a new song today. And
when they are bored of TV
and singing, we can also read
them some books. We do all
we can to make them enjoy
the morning class.
08:30
Cookie time. The
children love the sweet
snack.
09:00
Cleaning time. I
have to wash the children’s
feet and bodies. This is not
shower time. But we have to
clean the children because
they run around and get dirty
very easily.
09:45
Have to change the
diapers again. You can’t
imagine how many diapers
we consume here every day.
If people ask what our orphanage
needs, the answer is
always the same: diapers.
10:45
Lunch time. Every
time I finish feeding the
children, I feel full myself.
Seeing their satisfied faces
smiling is our biggest reward.
11:25
Not only is feeding
27 children challenging, but
getting them to bed for a nap
is also a tough mission. And
all the bowls and dishes are
waiting to be cleaned.
14:00
Time flies when I
am with the children. Work
is finished and now I should
get ready to go home. I will
miss the children, but I know
I will see them tomorrow.
15:45
Finally home. But my
housewife job has just began.
What’s next? Mop the floor,
clean the table, wash the
clothes.
17:00
The food in the market
is cheaper now, so I better
go and do some shopping for
dinner tonight.
17:30
Cooking for my family is one of my favorite
things to do. Today I will
prepare fried pork in sweet
and sour sauce, fried chicken
legs and spinach. My son is
going to love them.
18:30
My husband and son
are home. Time for family
dinner.
19:30
Washing dishes is
my last bit of work of the day
before I can rest on the coach
and watch TV.
21:00
It’s time for bed.
Early to bed and early to rise
makes me healthy, wealthy
and wise.
What We Think...
We can’t even begin to imagine how
it must be like to take care of so many
kids, much less feed them and lead play
time. And we’re not even going to get
into the logistics of cleaning 54 dirty
hands, 54 dirty feet and lord knows how
many diapers. We’ve got to give her
props. Tell Lu what you think.
Special thanks to volunteer group BEAN for their help in organizing and translating this piece
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Lu is amazing and has a great attitude. I really love the picture - her smile says it all. She has a busy but full life! I admire all that she does.

Working in a place like this can be a soul-destroying experience, it's never easy but the children and people always value it, no matter what they say.
I'm so glad to see in China that people are willing to work so hard for so little reward. I can't imagine what this poor woman's salary is, or what the quality of the food served to the children is like.
Please post some details of this place, my colleagues and I want to donate some diapers.
But I'm curious - with so many people in China, what is the root cause of an orphanage like this? Shouldn't these kids be going to a state school rather than having the Ayis teach them?

Hey everybody! The orphanage ayi here works with an orphanage for disabled children that BEAN supports and volunteers at. If you'd like to donate funds or gifts in kind, you can contact us at beanshanghai@gmail.com or go to our website at http://shanghai.beanonline.org and we can make sure your donation gets handled appropriately. Thanks!

Dear narsfweasels, I don't know the answers to your questions because we stay away from politics. I know that the children are often so severely disabled to the extent that they would not attend school in the west either- they might instead have a social worker come to their house to help the family each day instead.

I never said anything about politics.
Anyway, the article did not mention that these kids were handicapped or disabled in any way, which would better inform questions and also give us better ideas of the challenges.
Nonetheless, thanks for the contact info, I will bring this up at the next staff meeting at the end of the week and we will see what we can do ;)

Great article, I can't believe the hours she works!
I volunteered at a disabled children's orphanage and it was a real eye-opener to see these ladies at work. Hats off to them..